Memorial Day, formerly known as Decoration Day, started out commemorating Union soldiers who died fighting in the American Civil War. The holiday later changed names and grew to include those who died in any war or military action.
The day of remembrance began in the late 1860’s, and continued to be celebrated on the fixed date of May 30 until 1971 when all states came under the federal Uniform Holidays Bill, putting Memorial Day on the last Monday in May. Some groups have pushed for many years to have the fixed date reinstated. In a 2002 Memorial Day Address, the Veterans of Foreign Wars stated, “Changing the date merely to create three-day weekends has undermined the very meaning of the day. No doubt, this has contributed a lot to the general public’s nonchalant observance of Memorial Day.” That point may very well be valid. Many seem oblivious to the costs of freedom.
While reading accounts of soldiers who paid for liberty with their lives, I’m always struck by the bravery shown in the face of certain death. Some of them knew they’d be laying down their lives, and I’m reminded how complacent we’ve become in taking what they fought over for granted. Holes were forever left in the lineage of many families, so that you and I, unknowns from a different place in time, could pursue life, liberty and happiness.
It is important that we understand the battles, wars waged, and exactly what these fine soldiers died for. There’s much to be learned from the fires within those souls. They recognized beliefs and ideals far greater than themselves. It’s unsettling at times to see what was bought and paid for threatened, but I remain optimistic seeing today’s heroes rise up against adversity.
Having been born on Pearl Harbor Day, I’m sensitive to the price paid by the American soldier, as I grew up understanding its significance. After 9/11, I felt an even more acute awareness for how tenuous a thread our freedoms hang. The men and women who have given their lives understood as well, and many left us willingly. I can only hope their families take some comfort in knowing their loved one left an indelible mark on our history.
A big posthumous thank you this Memorial Day to the patriots who paid for my freedom with their lives. I owe a debt I can never repay, but I promise to live each day defending and upholding the freedoms you fought for. Your gifts to this country touch the very core of who I am, and I’ll never forget. Your stories are timeless, as are your sacrifices. You’re gone, but not forgotten.
© 2008 Natalie Whatley
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